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Nine minutes before midnight, September 10, my only daughter ended her seemingly interminable labor. With a surgeon's help, Janet Ann Lindeman delivered a handsome girl-child, seven pounds and 14 ounces of dark-haired innocence.

"A future runner, or volleyball star," announced the pediatrician, following examination of a perfectly formed body, notable for two very long, now busy, legs.

Before I could feast grandfatherly eyes upon this newest family member, her world suddenly was rent by madness, savagery and evil beyond our imagination.

Unspeakable Horror...
Tower 2 burns in the foreground, as the second hijacked plane banks in for the kill on Tower 1 (hidden behind tower 2 in this photo).

Tuesday morning, September 11, gave us newsmen reason to recall the brilliant cliché, "Day of Infamy..." Headlines spoke of thousands of victims to terrorism in Washington, Pennsylvania, and under the rubble of the fallen World Trade Towers

In New York, city of my birth, the news was all about death. A fifth-grade child, Jack Asimov, pulled from his Public School 150 class not far from Ground Zero, asked terrified parents, "How can people do something like this?"

These very words fell from the lips of rational people around the world. Then, in the days following the catastrophes, we again found reasons for hope, for reassurance. To my eye, the legion of rescue workers (largely, and sadly, a misnomer) began the turnaround. The courage and commitment of resolute men and women, with dust on their faces but boasting souls of steel, served as our beacon.

Their example reminds every American that, once threatened, the greatest democracy in the history of civilization understands what is required: 1) hard work, and 2) sacrifice.

Base of Tower 2 after the collapse... "Every one of us feels frustrated, even helpless," my oldest friend, author W. C. "Bill" Heinz, said, speaking by telephone from his mountaintop home in Dorset, Vermont. Heinz had a brilliant 60-year career describing "success and failure, life and death, and all the dire business of humanity" for newspapers, magazines and in books. In the words of biographer Jeff MacGregor, Bill Heinz sent home dispatches from World War II that "compared to those of Ernie Pyle."

 Now, my octogenarian friend and mentor, was saying: "We should all try to do our jobs better. The plumber, electrician, writer, stockbroker --must work as hard and as well as they know how."

In essence, set an example for one another and, of course, the world at large, which is watching, uncertain how the United States is going to respond.

Geneva Adele Lindeman with parents Janet Ann and Greg A word here to my youngest granddaughter, safe at home in Oak Park, Illinois: "Little darling, your fine parents, Janet Lindeman and Greg A. Domantay, have named you Geneva Adele Domantay. Both mother and dad are inveterate runners, swimmers and bikers. Healthful living becomes your first inheritance.

"Alas, your birth date proved less than optimal. However, allow this first day to remind you, always, of two roads, open and beckoning: the first leads to worthwhile deeds and self-sacrifice, a path trodden by a small army of latter- day American heroes and heroines. A darker, crooked trail runs toward fanaticism, and is exemplified by violence, inhumane acts and babble.

"Now, in the very hospital where you opened your eyes, your late grandmother, Adele Lindeman, had her life extinguished at age 40, a tragedy of incalculable dimension to our little family. Yet, your own mother (at the time, she was just eight), built a new, and exemplary, life. Today, she's the Lindeman lawyer/advocate.

"Your Uncle Paul, a Floridian, is an emergency room doctor, while Uncle Les, who lives down the block, is a script-writer and booster of spirits. Whenever your mood turns blue, phone Uncle Les. You'll feel better following his thoughtful visit. We come next to your terrific dad, the record- holding distance runner, teacher, coach and counselor. To know him is to love him; ask any of his several hundred runner-students.

"All around Chicago, you spot white tee shirts with blue lettering: 'Run Chicago'. That's pop's business. So, kiddo, when the going gets tough --and it will-- look to the family. We are your support squad.

Outrageous Author with newest addition Geneva ... One final thought: trust in your nation, now under siege. Americans are a moral and magnanimous people, striving to raise our children, and grandchildren, as best we know how.


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