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When his grandchildren hectored grandfather Kaedy to learn about computers, these fresh-faced, caring minors had no idea they, in fact, were about to unleash a force for progress.

For Jerry Kaedy, 69, a retired IBM corporate officer and a quick study, is a Johnny Appleseed for computer usage, carrying his message far and wide:

"Keep reminding the older generation of the advantages of being part of the wired world," Kaedy wrote here following a column suggesting the surest way to widen your world is to become computer-literate.

"Computers changed my life," Kaedy said then, without hesitation or embarrassment.

Kaedy and I quickly began a dialogue; here is his personal narrative, which may serve as a life-lesson:

For some 25 years, Jerry Kaedy was the proverbial man in the gray flannel suit, commuting by train to New York City, where he worked for the evolving International Business Machines Corporation. Was he into computers?

"Well, we were all into computers," he said, laughing. "But, no, I didn't have much to do with personal computers."

A naval veteran of the Korean War, Kaedy and wife Dorothy had two children (boy and a girl), and lived quietly but comfortably in Poughkeepsie, NY. In time, their adult children (a school teacher and a nurse) presented them with seven grandchildren. Two years ago, a great-grandson joined the family. It was this boy's mother, Leanne, who challenged Grandpa Jerry "to get smart."

"I don't think she thought I would ever do it," grandpa says, "but I bit the bullet. I bought a computer." Kaedy remembers the relic, a veritable antique, which began his crusade. What happened then?

"I discovered the magic," he said, "and I soon left my grandkids in the dust. Now, they come to me for help." Kaedy describes his present computer, custom built for under $1,000, as "state of the art, 2.2 gigahertz, with 250 megabytes of memory."

"You've gone from klutz to king," I said, and confessed I had not understood much of what he just reported.

This was his cue to proselytize: "Once the older adult has the box in the home and has been given an introductory lesson or two, she is on her own. But when gremlins appear-and they will-where do you turn?

"Fortunately, there is an organization standing by to bring computer technology to our older population. This is SeniorNet, a national group of volunteers with 200 Learning Centers, where students can get educated."

Three years ago, Jerry Kaedy, owner of 50 books and manuals on computers and veteran of numerous community courses, walked into the Poughkeepsie Learning Center. He was entering the SeniorNet world.

A member of the board of directors today, Kaedy says, "We're sort of like the military; you do what needs to be done." Presently, professor Jerry is staff coordinator for instruction: "I get teachers and assistants into each class." Classes, incidentally, draw students ranging in age from 50-85. The basic course (eight hours) is $20; the advanced course (graphics, et. al.) is $60 (16 hours).

During a recent visit to Poughkeepsie, the Kaedy's son and family were photographed again and again. Within 24 hours, Grandpa Jerry had the best shots on his computer, for instant messaging to friends and other family members. "I communicate more now than ever before," he says. "And if one of the grandkids happens to be on line, we have a chat in real time."


Ready to upgrade your computer skills? Head on over to SeniorNet and click on your state. Find the locale nearest you, and you're ready to begin your adventure. Be sure to tell everyone you read about SeniorNet --and Jerry from Poughkeepsie-- at BeOutrageous! Good Luck -- you can do it!!! (PS: SeniorNet has phones also! Call them at 1/800/474-8836.)

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